Sunday, 26 February 2017

It's Springtime!

It's that time of the year!
The time for the cuckoo to sing its love songs;
Hiding in flowering Mango trees,
Catching a whiff of the aromatic nectar,
Tempting its mate with a lilting coo.

Bees too think it's time
To be busy making sweet, sweet honey!
They spring into action making flowers blossom,
Scattering their pollens across sprawling meadows
Buzzing around giving wake up calls.

Butterflies glide in their pretty wings,
Whispering Nature's missive in the air,
Beguiling the Laburnums to burn bright and yellow,
Like chandeliers hanging in the sky
Arching the world in a beauteous canopy.

Indeed it is springtime,
A time to feast on the scent of blooms,
Primroses, Poppies, Periwinkles and Pansies;
The tiny, redolent white tulips,
Welcoming fresh, new leaves on trees.

Peeping from their burrows with curious eyes,
Waving their bushy tails,
Squirrels and chipmunks run in squiggles.
They merrily chase wind-blown berries,
And gleefully nibble on ripening nuts.

The sunflower fields stretching on and on,
Lining the roads with bobbing heads,
Happily gawking at their beloved Sun,
Questioning its absence through the winter months,
Relieved at long last that it's springtime!








Thursday, 21 January 2016

Birthday Breeze

Today, I turned 26. And I'm getting married in a week's time. However, I'm still waiting for the cliched feeling of 'Omg, I'm getting married too soon' or 'I don't think I can do this' or something similar. Movies and buzz feed articles tell me these thoughts are perfectly normal. In fact, I remember myself sending articles on wedding jitters to a friend of mine who was getting married last year and was sightly apprehensive about the whole event.

When my friends and relatives (including some strangers) first heard about me getting married, I was confronted with a variety of interesting reactions. For some friends, I was too young to even be thinking about marriage. "Are you crazy?! You're barely 25-26." "You have the whole life ahead of you! Now is the time to party, go on solo trips, enjoy life!" For others, I was too lucky to have found myself a 'perfect catch'. "Oh wow, your life is all set!" "I'm so envious! I really hope I too settle down with a nice guy soon!" It doesn't end here. Some have gone even as far as blaming me for getting married at the 'right age' as per their parents, which in turn has resulted in their parents making examples of my brilliant decision. Not to mention the judgemental looks of some people that I met for the first and probably the last time in my life. Once in the middle of a perfectly interesting conversation with some friends of a friend, someone let slip that I'm getting married in a month. The guy that I was talking to suddenly exclaimed (and not in a good way), "You're getting married?!!!" I don't know who was more surprised, me or his girlfriend sitting next to him! 

I wonder what is so different about getting married, apart from the obvious of course. After months of hearing loads of comments on how my life will change for the worse or better after marriage, overly concerned words to enjoy my 'last few days of freedom', and scores of birthday wishes emphasising the special last bachelorette birthday, I still feel perfectly calm and steady. Not much changed when my boyfriend became my fiancĂ©, and I don't think much will change when my fiancĂ© will become my husband. At least, not where it really matters. 

And that is why I know I am not marrying because its the right age, or that my parents want me to get married. I am not getting married too early or to 'settle down'. I'm getting married because I found that one person I want to spend the rest of my life with, and I don't want to waste another waking moment apart. Because with that one person, every age is the right age, every birthday is special, and every moment is a celebration of freedom.




Monday, 20 July 2015

The Ratha Jatra

Hands thrown above
                      In absolute surrender,
A giant sea of men
                      Roar and thunder,
A chant that echoes high,
"Jai Jagannatha, Jagannatha Jai."

They heave and they tug
                       The sturdy ropes with vigour.
They pull the triumphal carriages
                       That seat the Gods with grandeur.
And all the while, sonorously cry,
"Jai Jagannatha, Jagannatha Jai."

Materialises the Taladhwaja
                        In shades of green and red,
Carves the path and leads the way,
                       With all its might, speeds ahead.
Holder of the plough,
                        Fierce yet jovial,
The great Lord Balabhadra, 
                        Blesses the loyal.
It reverberates all through the sky,
"Jai Jagannatha, Jagannatha Jai."
                     
In glides Maa Subhadra,
                        Aesthetic and graceful,
Safe in the red and black Darpadalana
                        As gongs clang and jangle.
With a brother on each side,
                        In a chariot trimmed with gold,
She is pleased with all,
                        Sparing neither young, nor old.
And the earth sings with joy,
"Jai Jagannatha, Jagannatha Jai."

Sweat trickles down the brow, as the day passes.
The crowd stubbornly awaits for a glimpse of sacredness.
Their hearts full of hope, tongues uttering prayers;
Having no identity,
But that of a devotee,
They stand shoulder to shoulder,
In a strange divinity.
A faith that never shall die,
"Jai Jagannatha, Jagannatha Jai."

And then He comes,
                         In His sixteen-wheeled Nandighosh,
The Natha of Jagat,
                         The Lord of the Universe.
Chaos erupts, when His chariot arrives,
                         Regal, in red and yellow.
A chance sighting of those round black eyes
                         Emitting a heavenly glow,
The World all but explodes;
Drums! Conches! Exulting dances!
Resounding through the cosmos,
Their voices fly,
"Jai Jagannatha, Jagannatha Jai."



Sunday, 5 July 2015

An Ode To My Lost Love

Going through a break up is bad. Getting dumped is worse. But losing a love through no fault of yours (okay, maybe a little fault), is the worst. Heart-break and wallowing in misery are mild terms for that painful, gut-wrenching feeling. It was the exact same emotion I went through when I lost my love. My Beloved. My phone. My ridiculously expensive phone, that my dad had paid for because I didn't earn enough to buy that particular model. 

It didn't help that I was on vacation. I had no work to do except sit and mope. I refused to use any other phone because it just didn't seem right to move on so quickly. I needed time to mourn. Ignoring the advices offered to me by friends and family on how to get over the terrible mishap, I decided to recollect each and every moment spent with my Beloved. 

I used to wake up each morning to the sound of an irritating alarm tone of my phone, and then check for any texts I would have received in the middle of the night on WhatsApp. I stopped wearing watches a long time ago, because I checked the time on my phone. After all, watches are mere pieces of jewellery, and it wouldn't matter in the least if they stopped working. I never watched the news or read newspapers because I got TOI notifications on my phone. It didn't matter that I hardly ever read the whole article, just the one liner news notification was enough to keep me updated. Off late, I had even taken to reading e-books on my phone. 

I couldn't check my Facebook profile, couldn't browse through Instagram, couldn't watch videos on YouTube, couldn't edit the pictures I had taken on the holiday, couldn't check stuff on Google for anything and everything I had doubts about. And I haven't even begun talking about the emotional attachment. My phone had been my faithful companion in awkward situations. It was there when I needed to look busy and important. It was there when I felt lonely in a crowd. It was there when I became angry with anyone, and desperately needed a distraction. It had always, always been there.

I may be many things, but one thing that I am not is weak-hearted. I knew life goes on and that I had to be strong and take life as it comes. Bracing myself, I decided to take up the challenge. I tried my hands at cooking that day, something that always scares me, and found that I actually enjoy doing it. I spent a quiet afternoon to myself with an actual hard copy of a novel and a few cups of tea, and realised I had missed the comforting scent of the pages of books. The evening was spent in cracking crazy jokes with my cousins and laughing like maniacs with the rest of my family. Thanks to my extremely supportive family who left their usual work to chat with me, I realised how very possessive my Beloved had become, demanding all my time for itself!

Just when I was endowed with this great insight and promised myself to prioritise the important things and people over my Beloved, I glanced fondly around my family once more. I watched open mouthed as my great enlightenment came to nought.  My mom was fiddling with her cell-phone, my aunt was talking to someone on the land phone, one of my brothers was chatting on his laptop and the other was doing God-knows-what in his DSLR camera, and my uncle was playing cards on his playbook! I had some real strong competition. My family has its own Beloveds! 

Friday, 13 March 2015

Brats And Bravehearts!

It is always charming when your date gets out of the car to walk you to your door-step or pulls out the chair for you. It just warms your heart towards him and makes you rather fond of him. But when an 8-year-old who met you for the first time, politely asks you your name, lets you walk into the restaurant first, and opens the car door for you, you fall head over heels in love with him. Period. 
Today, when I was invited for a lunch with three kids I barely knew, I reluctantly agreed, possibly because I had nothing better to do, and more so because I couldn't really refuse my boss' wife. As it turned out, it was one of the best times I have had off late. Watching those children chatter and run about, and answering their ridiculous questions to the best of my ability was actually fun! It is so easy to lose myself in their innocence and purity, untainted by the prickly hands of the devilish world. 
The little girl whose father is fighting for his life in a comatose state this very moment, since two months, though considerably quietened by the incident, is still able to laugh and make others smile. The perfect little gentle-man of a boy, who has suddenly become the man in his family with an estranged father and dead uncle, is still able to tease and crack jokes making his friends squeal with laughter. 
Can we not see the wisdom these children emit through their activities? Can we not find the refreshing beauty in them? Can we not be more like these little angels who are God's way of teaching us to move forward in our lives, with a smile and kindness in heart? 

Thursday, 15 January 2015

The Woes Of Being Perfect!

All of us have our own share of worries and set of troubles, which are exclusive. To put it simplistically, the one thing common to all our sorrows is that we find our lives, or some aspect of it, lacking in perfection. But amidst us mere commoners, there exist a rare breed of men, who are so perfect, that we draw inspiration from them, tinted of course with a sense of envy. This story is about one such perfect man, whose only problem was that he was too perfect!
He was a good man. A man who was perceived as someone who can do no wrong. At an era, where people instead of offering an apology, rush to defend themselves with an arrogant 'So what, I'm not Perfect!', this man was a breath of fresh air. Our story starts when normal, flawed people, bursting with jealousy, demanded the secret of perfection from our hero. 
Our perfect man could be described as honest, kind, humble, intelligent, wise, handsome, polite, wealthy, trustworthy, blameless, guiltless, disciplined, courteous, honourable, and any other adjective referring to pure virtue. His competitors struggled to find vices in his character, till they were tired of their fruitless endeavour. His family and friends were proud to be associated with him, and constantly asked for his advice and help, and were never displeased. Stunningly attractive women tried to win his heart, and clever men his friendship. Experts tried to decipher the logic behind his investments hitting gold, while astrologers opined about the alignment of his stars. He was interviewed by the media and was discussed about in high circles. Everybody finally decided that the perfect man must disclose his secret regarding the perfection that comes so naturally to him.
All this while, nobody cared to notice that the energy and vigour with which our hero conducted himself had begun to wane. Nobody noticed the burden of the expectations that he seemed to bear. Nobody noticed the fear of failure slowly being built behind his eyes. Nobody bothered about the fact that his once carefree, melodious, perfect laughter was turning stony and lifeless. And one day, he left. 
The world went crazy. Their foremost worry - the Secret of Perfection had vanished with him!
A few months later, when the Government had claimed and declared the Perfect Man's belongings as public treasures and began auctioning them, his personal diary was discovered. The excitement of people could not be contained. Therefore, the last entry of his diary was unanimously decided to be made public. It read thus,
"All my life I have been called perfect. I have been questioned about my way of living life, my thinking, my inspiration and my uniqueness. But all my life I have only acted as I have seen fit. My actions were mere reflections of my beliefs and my idea of what is right and wrong. Which is exactly the same as everyone else. I have succeeded in every venture, but I failed to answer that one question the whole world expected me to answer. I have failed to discover the secret of something that they call Perfection."

Wednesday, 7 January 2015

My LSE Experience - A Beauty Of Its Own Kind


(This article was written more than two years ago and had been published in a youth daily, but I felt it should find its place in this blog, as it remains close to my heart.)


It was like a dream come true, when I finally got my acceptance mail from the London School of Economics for my summer school course in Intellectual Property Law and Society. I was thrilled to bits and super-excited that I was going to London, without the comfort and safe circle of parents, to study for a month in one the most prestigious universities in the world! We were two girls, both law students, out to live our life in a few weeks only.
Armed with knowledge rendered to us by experienced elders along with baskets full of wishes from friends and family, we set out on what became the most challenging part of my life till now. We arrived at Heathrow Airport in the evening, with two huge bags that felt like sacks of stone. Had a cousin of mine not been there to receive us and drop us at the hostel, we would have probably ended up in tears. It was a Sunday night, and most of London was closed. Taxis were unnaturally few, restaurants were shut, the tap in the Hostel bathroom had a stamp “Do Not Drink”, and tiny bottles of water were in a vending machine, which only accepted one-pound coins. As ill luck would have it, the minimum denomination we had was twenty pounds notes. Thankfully, a kind stranger lent us two coins so that we could have some water and we could never even return the money back.
We had learnt our first lesson. Never take too many clothes on any journey, howsoever long it might be!  Map out your itinerary carefully, right from the moment you step down at the airport. Keep smaller denominations with you. Pack some food while you travel. And we also learnt that London has nice people. 
The London School of Economics, however was an altogether enthralling experience. There were students from Australia, Russia, Canada, Indonesia, Singapore, China, Latvia, Spain, Denmark, US, France, Brazil, Italy, Turkey, Bangladesh, Dubai, Pakistan, Nepal, and this is only that I can recall at this point! Our class had about thirty-five students and all of them were very interactive in class. Incidentally, both our professors were from India, and they were the best teachers I had ever come across. Though it makes me sad that such brilliant minds are not being exploited by our own people, I am glad that I had my share of it, however small it might be. We had to submit an essay at mid-term, and give an exam at the end of the course. We had four hours of classes everyday, and we had been provided with a lot of materials to help us in studies.
We learnt another important thing, that however much we may boast of our gadgets, Indians are technologically challenged! In the class-room, while we were busy taking vigorous notes in pen and paper, our classmates were typing swiftly in their MacBooks and iPads. While we are used to shouting at the “Xerox wale bhaiya” to take print-outs and photocopies, it seemed quite a daunting task to recharge our LSE ID card, photocopy materials by operating the machine ourselves, and issuing library books by swiping cards. We met our match when we reached the final stage of stapling our assignment. The stapler was a one-foot long machine that has automatic sensor in it, to staple papers. Like I said, technologically challenged we were!
We had our share of fun when we went sightseeing. The St. Paul’s Cathedral, The Tower of London, Tower Bridge, London Eye, Madam Tussaud’s, Big Ben, The Buckingham Palace were as majestic as we had heard. But the part we are most proud about was that the two of us planned out the tours, booked tickets online, mapped out our transportation and route by ourselves! We even managed a three days tour of Scottish Highlands and Edinburgh, weekend tours at Sheffield and Manchester and altogether it was heavenly.
There were a number of times that we got lost, moved about in circles, misread the maps, fell ill, booked wrong dates for our journey, were careless enough to let my friend’s camera get stolen, were clueless about traffic signals and narrowly escaped accidents, slept hungry because we couldn’t eat cold food any more, couldn’t board a taxi even though our feet were aching from walking as we were on a strict budget, but we survived! It is completely different from going vacationing with parents, where somebody else plans everything, worries about our food and comfort. Like my friend said on our way back to India, “I feel a thousand times wiser now!”